New Connections

Change is a good thing… really.  Without change the universe isn’t able to receive direction to begin to create something new.  The other day while on a coaching call with an amazing woman we discussed the balancing of her heart’s desire, faith and the perceived stumbling blocks that are associated with life.

The questions that we were addressing were:

How do you balance the leap of faith of newness and hold onto the faith that all is possible with the human emotions of uncertainty? The uncertainty of life can create fear, anxiety and upset.  I am a firm believer that if you change your emotions in order to create new connections, you create a new existence.

Dr. Joe Dispenza who has devoted himself to the study of neuroplasticity says “neurons that fire together stay together” has an amazing video on his website that shows in real time a “thought” and it’s connection to the neurons within the brain.  He then goes on and shows the image of learning something new and an image of changing your mind. (Check out Dr. Joe Dispenza.com for amazing video that shows this concept http://www.drjoedispenza.com/)

It is amazing.  That literally you can see your brain in action, having a thought and then seeing the working of that thought.  Also, how if you change the emotional component you change the links.  What this video made clear to me is that if you consistently feel or become angry or sad, hopeless on a daily basis, then the connections become strong and create tentacles.

This means that you are creating a new neural connection that you have all the control over.  Reminding yourself that this is a temporary situation that requires consistent attention until completion will help you fall back onto your healthy thought patterns and have the resilience to move through the unhealthy thoughts quicker.

You could ask yourself “Is the thought I am thinking helpful or harmful to me? I guarantee you’ll get the answer you desire.

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Come and learn more about this and other strategies for coping when I present Dr. Rob’s Love and Infertility Workshop Part 1 to be held at the Rochester Center on November 17 from 6:30 to 8:30 pm. Also, feel free to call in to the December 8th Tele-workshop at 8:00 pm for a review of strategies from Love and Infertility Workshop Part I and some helpful holiday strategies.