Write it down! Strategy for Living!

Write it down!

I have found myself in conversation with women this week who are in transition. Looking for newness in their lives, new homes, new loves, new cars, new hair dos…

With all new things come a sense of confusion or worry about the decision. One of the strongest ways of cutting through the confusion and apprehension of change is to write down what you’re looking for.

When Mark and I were looking for our home, we took the time to write in detail what this home would look like. When we arrived at the door to our home, it was eerie how closely the list matched the house. By putting down in black and white what your looking forward, you are in a way placing an order to the universe to open up, direct you to and pull in that exact experience or item.

I had a friend who was looking for a partner and I shared with her this strategy, and although the perfect match hasn’t show up at her door as of yet, she keeps the list in her night stand to use as a reminder to herself what is important – for her to feel supported, loved and appreciated in a relationship.

I encourage you to do the same when contemplating a life change. It might seem simple but in actuality it is simply amazing.

Author of Girlfriend To Girlfriend: A Fertility Companion and Love & Infertility: Survival Strategies for Balancing Infertility, Marriage and Life

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